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Beth, this post is about high school.
Remember those years?
I do.
Sometimes, I wish I didn't.
I mean, high school was fun, but I'll admit, I was SO happy when it was over.
I think it's because in high school, you're "required" to take all those classes, like Physical Science, Algebra & Civics. I was so NOT interested in those classes.
I'm not knocking those who were, but it just wasn't my thing.
My favorite classes were Speech Communications, Journalism & Creative Writing.
Makes sense, though, seeing as how I work in the field of Journalism, as a news producer.
As far as friends, I had a "core group" of about 10 girls, but that's about it. I was very insecure about myself back then & I was uncomfortable being around anyone besides my core group.
I think that's an insecure time for a lot of girls, whether they admit it or not.
Moving onto the subject of boys, I had my share of boyfriends.
In 10th grade, I don't remember having a boyfriend, but I do remember going on dates & stuff. I also went to another school's (Hall High) prom with a guy named Marc M.
In 11th grade, I dated a guy named David T. for just about the whole year. We were "in love". He was a year older than me & he was so cute. We broke up a short time after his prom.
Then, in 12th grade, I dated a guy named David B. He was my neighbor & went to an all boys school. He, too, was so cute. I had very strong feelings for David. I know now it wasn't love, but it came really close. People, we talked about marriage & we even named our kids.
Hello?Because we went to different schools, we would write each other notes during the day. We got home at different times every day, so when we'd drive past each other's houses, we'd put the notes in each other's mailboxes or under the front door mat.
On night's that he had to work (he was a waiter at a local mexican restaurant), I'd go there (by myself or with friends) to see him. He also played hockey, so I always went to his games. Afterwards, we go eat or go back to his house & his mom would cook us dinner.
I was heartbroken when we stopped seeing each other. But, I got over it. Obviously.
I think, though, because of that relationship, plus the fact that I had so much fun with my friends & I was finally taking classes that I LOVED, I would say that my senior year was my most favorite & funnest year.
And, I won't lie.
My parents had gotten divorced a year earlier & my mom was dating my now step-dad & they went out of town a lot (we had a condo in Hot Springs), so I would have parties on the weekend.
I got in trouble once.
Like I said, I won't lie.
Me & David & some of our other "couple" friends would come over to my house to play pool & we always got someone to buy us beer.
One Sunday, my mom came home way earlier than I expected & I had not thrown away the garbage bag full of empty cans & bottles. She called me at David's & asked me if I'd had a party the night before. I admitted it. But, instead of grounding me, she told me not to do it again.
Um?
I did.
The next weekend.
And, the weekend after that.
So, would I do high school over again?
Nope.
Is there anything I regret?
Sure.
I regret worrying too much about what people thought of me. Because in the grand scheme of things, it didn't really matter.
Would I change anything?
Surprisingly, no.
What happened in those 3 years, the choices I made, the mistakes I made, the people I loved & the people I didn't love, helped to shape the person I am today.
And, I'm pretty happy with who I've become & how my life turned out.
I have a wonderful husband, a nice house, a great job, an awesome family, a crazy dog & a group of friends, who I consider my 2nd family. And, I have a good relationship with God.
I laugh a lot, I'm more confident in who I am, I'm not so worried anymore about what people think of me, I'm not afraid to meet new people & I stand up for what I believe in.
Not a bad deal, I'd say.
So, now, you go. Tell me your high school stories.